Can I Lend My Car to a Friend of Mine Without Worry?

Lisa Conant, Automotive Features Reviewer at CarParts.com

Reviewed by

Lisa Conant, Automotive Content Specialist

Automotive Features Reviewer at CarParts.com

Written by CarParts.com Research Team - Updated on July 16th, 2024

Reading Time: 4 minutes
Summary
  • If your friend asks to borrow your car, consider the risks before deciding whether or not it’s safe to lend them your vehicle.
  • Car insurance complications, a bad driving record, and liability in vehicular accidents are possible issues caused by your friend getting into trouble while driving your car.
  • Ask yourself and your friend questions like how good they are at driving and if they’re willing to pay if they get into an accident while in your car.

It can happen to everyone and might have already happened to you. A friend, neighbor, or relative approaches you and asks if they can borrow your car. They must drive somewhere today but can’t use their own vehicle.

On one hand, your first instinct is to agree to their request. After all, a friend in need is a friend, indeed. On the other hand, you might feel reservations about your friend’s ability to drive your car safely. So, what’s the answer to the question: “Can I lend my car to a friend?”

Can I Lend My Car to a Friend?

While you shouldn’t immediately deny your friend’s request, you must consider the possible consequences of lending your car to them. Your car is a significant investment and means a lot to you. Don’t hand over such a valuable thing without thinking things through.

If you think an accident might happen or suspect your friend might not take good care of your car, politely refuse their request.

What Can Happen if I Lend My Car to a Friend?

Here are the risks you must consider when thinking about lending your car to a friend:

Car Insurance Complications

Is your car insured? The peace of mind granted by your car insurance can quickly transform into a financial and legal nightmare if your friend gets into an accident while driving your car.

Depending on how the insurance policy is framed and worded, the financial protection might not cover damages involving a driver who isn’t the policyholder. The insurance company might not honor a claim, citing that the person involved in the accident isn’t you, the owner of the insurance policy.

If the insurance company rejects the claim, you must pay for the damages and financial liabilities out of your own pocket. You’ll probably have to ask your friend to contribute to the payments.

If your friend gets your insured car into trouble, it might also affect the insurance premium you pay every month or year to maintain your insurance policy. Even if you weren’t directly involved, the insurance company might charge you a higher premium for letting someone else drive your car and get into an accident.

Car insurance policies include an exclusion that asserts the insurer won’t cover vehicles used for purposes that they weren’t supposed to do. So, if your friend decides to take your ordinary car into a drag race and causes an accident, your insurance won’t accept claims.

Loss of Clean Driving Record

Lending your car to your friend also means entrusting them with your driving record. If you keep a spotless record, you’re risking something you’ve worked hard on.

A clean driving record is invaluable in several ways. It proves you’re a low-risk driver to insurers, making them willing to offer lower premiums and discounts on their policies. Additionally, a good record can influence the opinion of potential employers, who will generally prefer careful employees over careless ones.

Unfortunately, you might have to bid farewell to your clean driving record if your friend gets into an accident or violates the law while behind the wheel of your car. The police will usually enter violations on your record since you own the vehicle involved in the incident.

While some violations eventually get removed from your driving record after a year or two, others linger for several years. Insurers and employers can see the black mark on your record during that time.

Liability in Vehicular Accidents

Ultimately, your car belongs to you. As long as you stay within the boundaries defined by the law, you can do almost whatever you want with it. Among other things, you decide who can drive it if you’re not present.

If you agree to lend your car to someone else, you also consent to them driving it on your behalf. But the responsibility for all accidents involving your vehicle remains on your shoulders.

If your friend gets involved in an accident while driving your car, the law will hold you liable for damages and injuries. After all, if you hadn’t lent your vehicle to your friend, the accident might not have happened.

The only mitigating circumstances are if someone has stolen or robbed your car. Understandably, no owner wants to lose their vehicle like that.

Complicity in Crimes

One of the rarest and worst possibilities is that your friend uses your car to break the law and pins the blame on you. It can lead to you getting arrested and imprisoned for complicity in the crimes that your bad friend committed behind the wheel of your vehicle. You’ll spend a lot of time and money to clear your name.

Car Loss

Not all cars are built equal. A luxury or sports car is more valuable than a secondhand sedan that serves as your daily driver. Or your vehicle might hold deep sentimental value for you.

So, when your friend asks to borrow your priceless car, you’ll understandably hesitate to let them sit behind the steering wheel.

Think Carefully Before Lending Your Car to a Friend

Here are some questions you might want to ask yourself if your friend wants to borrow your car:

Are They Good at Driving?

You can trust good drivers with your car because you know they’ll care for it almost as well as you do. Remember to ask them about their driver’s license.

Are They Willing To Pay if They End Up in an Accident?

Your friend might not expect an accident. But if they truly value your friendship, they’ll assuage your concerns by agreeing to shoulder the financial burden if they get into an accident.

What Will They Use Your Car For?

You deserve to know the real reason why your friend needs to borrow your car. If they intend to use it for something that isn’t an emergency, you’re not obligated to lend them your vehicle.

Is Your Car Insurance Policy Updated?

Ensure your car insurance policy stays up-to-date. Go for a comprehensive plan that covers more scenarios like third-party liability, which applies if you lend your car to a friend.

How Often Will Your Friend Use Your Car?

Ask your friend how frequently they intend to drive your car. The chances of an accident increase alongside the number of times your vehicle goes on the road.

If you can get satisfactory answers to these questions, you can lend your car to your friend with the assurance that they’ll care for your vehicle.

About The Author
Reviewed By Lisa Conant

Automotive Features Reviewer at CarParts.com

Lisa Conant grew up in Canada around a solid contingency of gear heads and DIY motor enthusiasts. She is an eclectic writer with a varied repertoire in the automotive industry, including research pieces with a focus on daily drivers and recreational vehicles. Lisa has written for Car Bibles and The Drive.

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